Questions to Consider

Being a good parent can take a lot of planning, and begins even during pregnancy. A woman or couple can take steps during pregnancy to prepare for a new addition to the family. Here are some initial questions a woman can ask herself to assist her in thinking about the future:

Family and Support

  • If she is single, is marrying the father a possibility? Why or why not?
  • What type of support could the father of the baby provide?
  • Will his family be involved or be additional support?
  • How could her family help?
  • Is she prepared to care for herself during pregnancy?
  • Who can support her emotionally?

The Woman’s Situation

  • How will pregnancy and parenting affect her job/career?
  • What are the goals she has for herself?
  • How can she continue toward her goals and make a life for herself and her child?
  • Will her living situation be healthy for a baby?

Financial and Medical Considerations

  • Does she have appropriate medical insurance? What will her insurance cover?
  • What financial adjustments will need to be made?
  • Would she consider applying for WIC, Medicaid and other government programs that cover the cost of many medical services and supplies.
  • Who can she call for more information about local resources?
  • Has she researched resources in her area that can provide parenting support and supplies?

She can meet with a pregnancy counselor at the Whatcom County Pregnancy Clinic to discuss services available for pregnant and parenting women/couples. She can call for an appointment [360.671.9057] or stop in between 9:00am-5:00pm M-F.

 
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